Navigating Real Estate Partnerships: Expert Advice for Maximum Growth

In this engaging and fun episode of the Brick & Mortar Money Show, join host Paul Neal as he engages with Ashley Kehr, a trailblazer in the real estate world. Ashley shares her journey from a CPA to a real estate investment success, emphasizing the power and potential of partnerships in the industry.

What You'll Discover in This Episode:

-- How Ashley transformed her career and built a substantial real estate portfolio.

-- The key strategies for forming and nurturing successful real estate partnerships.

-- The importance of trust, communication, and clearly defined roles in partnerships.

-- Real-world insights on structuring partnerships for mutual growth and success.

-- Lessons learned from Ashley's experience and how they can be applied to your real estate ventures.

About Our Guest:

Ashley Kehr, co-host of the Bigger Pockets Real Estate Rookie Podcast, brings a wealth of knowledge from her diverse experience in both residential and commercial properties. Her unique approach to using partnerships for wealth creation in real estate is both inspiring and educational. Ashley is the author of Real Estate Rookie: 90 Days to Your First Investment. She recently co-authored with Tony Robinson on Powered By Partnerships: Access More Cash, Acquire Bigger Deals, and Achieve Higher Profits with a Real Estate Partner. When Ashley isn’t behind the mic she is raising 3 boys on a dairy farm in rural Buffalo, NY.

 https://www.ashleykehr.com/

Meet the Host:

Paul Neal is the founder and Principal Funding Strategist at Vantage Point Commercial Capital, a firm that focuses on helping entrepreneurs, businesses, and real estate investors win by funding their growth and dreams in nontraditional ways. Paul’s unique perspective has been honed over 30 years as an entrepreneur, financial strategist, professional speaker, and executive coach. He took the road less traveled choosing to leave engineering right out of college to become a serial entrepreneur. From great early successes in the 90s and 2000s, to completely losing his primary business in the Great Recession of 2008, to bouncing back and just recently selling another business for a healthy 7-figure sum…he’s experienced it all. Paul offers a wealth of experience and passion to the entrepreneurial community in an engaging, upbeat, encouraging, and witty way.

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[00:00:00] Have you ever thought about using a partner or partnerships to build your real estate business and

[00:00:04] accelerate your wealth creation? If so, you need to watch today's episode. I interview Ashley Kerr

[00:00:10] who started her business in 2014 after she pushed back on her new boss saying,

[00:00:14] I don't want this stupid job right out of college. And she's built an amazing portfolio of real

[00:00:20] estate and recently wrote a book on the use of partners and how she used partners and how

[00:00:25] she continues to use partnerships to grow her business and her practice and accelerate her wealth creation.

[00:00:32] Welcome to The Brick & Mortar Money Show. The podcast dedicated to helping business owners

[00:00:38] and professionals achieve wealth, autonomy and control through commercial property ownership.

[00:00:44] Join us as we unlock the power of real estate to transform your business and investment

[00:00:49] strategies. Whether you're seeking to expand, invest or gain more freedom in your entrepreneurial

[00:00:55] journey, this is your destination for insightful stories, expert advice and actionable strategies.

[00:01:04] Welcome.

[00:01:08] Welcome listeners. Today I have the distinct honor and privilege of having Ashley Kerr on her show

[00:01:13] today. She is the co-host of the Bigger Pockets Real Estate Rookie podcast, but in addition to that,

[00:01:19] she's got a really amazing background. She purchased her first rental property in 2014

[00:01:24] and since then has grown her buying portfolio to over 30 properties.

[00:01:28] She's got experience of residential and commercial properties and she accredits a lot of her

[00:01:33] success to the use of partners on several of her key real estate deals and creative

[00:01:38] financing. And I want to dig into those specific areas today with her and I'm excited about

[00:01:42] getting deeper and learning about her story. So Ashley, welcome to the show today.

[00:01:46] Thank you so much for having me.

[00:01:48] Yeah, yeah. So bring us up to speed real quickly. I know you've got,

[00:01:52] understand you've got a farm, you're a mom, you got a lot going on. So tell us

[00:01:57] this story about how you got into real estate and kind of where you are.

[00:02:01] Okay, yeah. I graduated from college with an Accounting and Finance dual degree.

[00:02:07] I was set out to be a CPA and I had interned for an accounting firm throughout college and the plan

[00:02:13] was after college, I'd graduate. I got married the summer after college and then I'd start working

[00:02:19] full time that fall and I'd finally start making the big bucks. Well, that day came when I got my,

[00:02:27] you know, offer letter to go full time and it was extremely disappointing. It was maybe

[00:02:35] $3 more than what I was making as an intern there. And I just remember the,

[00:02:44] one of the partners at the firm just saying, you know, I don't make the money that I want either

[00:02:50] basically saying this is how life is. And I, that's just stuck in the back of my mind forever

[00:02:56] as far as well, I don't want that. So I only lasted six months and I quit in the middle

[00:03:03] of tax season. I gave my two weeks notice and they said, you know, we usually don't keep someone

[00:03:10] for two weeks, you know, once you quit, you're gone. I was like, okay, great. And then they're

[00:03:15] like, well, no, no, no, I guess we do need to stay and finish the game. So my plan was I just

[00:03:22] wanted to be a stay at home mom. And shortly after that, I went on vacation with my friend

[00:03:28] and her family. And I, you know, was talking to them about, you know, I quit my job. I don't know

[00:03:34] what I'm going to do. You know, my husband can support me. I'm just gonna stay at home mom. And

[00:03:39] so growing up, I had known the family very well in that he the dad had a bunch of businesses

[00:03:45] and did a lot of different things. I always respected what he did. And they always were

[00:03:51] very successful and had money and would take us on trips and things like that. So he said,

[00:03:56] I need help in my business. And it really intrigued me. And I said, okay, and the words he used was

[00:04:02] I need help getting organized. So that was really the job description. And I started working for him

[00:04:09] part time and what that ended up translating into was, I have a 40 unit apartment complex

[00:04:15] that I need someone to manage. And so that was my first position with him was managing

[00:04:21] a 40 unit apartment complex. The best part was the bookkeeping was easy for me, I could collect

[00:04:27] the rent tax, I could pay the bills, I could properly record everything. And so the numbers

[00:04:32] were good, I could budget everything like that. But I didn't know the first thing about tenant

[00:04:38] landlord law about leases, things like that. So I spent so much time learning and researching

[00:04:45] at that point, I didn't know anybody else that was a real estate investor or property manager.

[00:04:50] I didn't know about websites like bigger pockets. So I had to learn everything on my own and

[00:04:56] the previous person that managed this literally just used pen and paper for everything.

[00:05:01] So I took the first couple of years upgraded everything to software streamlined everything

[00:05:05] created my systems and processes. And so I had been doing this for about a year when I approached

[00:05:12] the owner son, who would also been my childhood friend. I said, look what your dad is doing.

[00:05:18] We need to do this. And the son was in the family business that they had, but that wasn't real estate.

[00:05:23] Real estate was always just a side thing his dad did. And so I said, you know, look at the cash

[00:05:29] flow here, look at the advantages and his dad was taking an apartment complex refinancing it and

[00:05:36] using that money to buy another business in cash. And so I was just looking at how this

[00:05:43] real estate was actually helping his regular business that he was operating to. So we dove in

[00:05:51] and we bought the first duplex that we looked at. And from then I became a real estate investor.

[00:06:00] Well, it just is some funny thoughts across my mind. You know, when you're telling the story,

[00:06:04] it's like the business owner because we work with a lot of business owners and entrepreneurs.

[00:06:08] And that's kind of your typical job description, right? Come help me get organized.

[00:06:14] Unfortunately, you were intelligent enough to go in there and creative and enough initiative to

[00:06:19] actually go beyond the job description. But normally us business owners screw that up

[00:06:25] about four or five times, right? On hires until we figure out we need to define, you know, what

[00:06:29] we're looking to get actually done. Oh, and I definitely made my mistakes. And it was definitely

[00:06:34] a learning process for sure. And probably if he hired an experienced property manager

[00:06:39] right off the bat, it would have been more efficient and effective right away. And it definitely

[00:06:44] took me some time to really get it operating. But it was definitely a unique opportunity that

[00:06:51] I was able to learn all this stuff and get paid and have a great job while doing that.

[00:06:56] Plus it was very flexible. I could work whenever I needed to and I could work from home too.

[00:07:02] No, that's awesome. Well, he obviously saw something in you and he knew you've grown

[00:07:06] up and the drive and the energy and and obviously, you know, I think was a big loyalty like being able

[00:07:14] to trust me and knowing that I would be loyal. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, that's huge in business,

[00:07:19] right? I know you're going to get into partnerships. But loyalty is almost the most

[00:07:23] important thing because you can solve a lot of problems if you know that people's heart is right

[00:07:29] and they're with you long term. But okay, so you had this door of opportunity,

[00:07:33] you go to college, you get the tip, you know, you're following the quote unquote American dream,

[00:07:38] right? And then you get out and disillusionment hits and reality sets in. And I thought it was

[00:07:44] funny what you said, you know, the season the CPA says, well, you know, basically my life

[00:07:51] sucks in yours will too and just get used to it. And you're like, no, I reject that, which I

[00:07:57] love. I love. All right, so you got in, you got started in real estate with your,

[00:08:05] with your friend and bought your first property and that was was that 2014?

[00:08:11] Yeah, that's 2014 we bought our first one. Yep. Okay, so then just fast forward quickly,

[00:08:16] you know, just bring us up to speed then since since you kind of fell into it and you had

[00:08:22] this opportunity and you've done quite a bit with it. What what are some of the key lessons you've

[00:08:28] learned? And we have people that are listening that are sort of feeling that same pinch that

[00:08:33] they sort of hate their job or they want to grow their business or they want, they want to get in

[00:08:37] real estate. How did you get started and then for some of the more seasoned people, how

[00:08:40] you know, how did you just sort of see to the next the next mountain, you know, to go for it?

[00:08:46] Yeah, so the reason I got started was I picked my ideal opportunity for getting a partner. I

[00:08:54] approached the guy that I was working for his son, his son didn't have any investments. Yeah,

[00:08:59] as far as real estate and he had a bunch of cash savings that he had and wasn't doing anything

[00:09:07] with they're just sitting in his bank account. But also he could ask, you know, get a glowing

[00:09:12] recommendation from his dad about me and trusted me because we knew each other well. And so he

[00:09:18] actually fronted all the capital. I think maybe I ended up putting in $5,000 for some of the repairs

[00:09:24] that we did after we purchased it. But we set it up so that he actually got 50% equity of

[00:09:29] the property. So he was getting 50% of the cash flow and 50% of the, you know, a faked in

[00:09:35] appreciation and the mortgage pay down. But then also he actually had a note on the property

[00:09:40] where he was receiving a mortgage payment for the funds he actually put into the property.

[00:09:45] So he was getting paid back at 5.5% interest amortized over 15 years. So there was almost

[00:09:53] that extra security. It wasn't just here's the cash, I hope we make cash flow. We had run

[00:09:59] the numbers based off of him getting his principal and interest paid back. Plus,

[00:10:03] you know, there was a little bit of cash flow on the property too. So that was, you know,

[00:10:08] the biggest advantage I had was I had an opportunity to partner with someone who was

[00:10:14] in the right mindset to do was capable of doing it, but didn't have the time or the energy

[00:10:19] to actually go and buy the properties himself. So that was a huge advantage to me that I was

[00:10:25] able to bring that to the table. We still continue to partner today. He is still in

[00:10:30] the family business. There's some things that he's uncertain about. And he literally uses

[00:10:35] the real estate investments that I bring him that we partner on as his safety net.

[00:10:40] As to like, okay, this is what I have if everything else falls through, you know,

[00:10:45] my buy sell doesn't work out with my dad or whatever it may be. That is, you know, his safety net.

[00:10:51] So it's been a great partnership throughout the years. And then kind of fast forward,

[00:10:56] I've taken on a couple other partners, my sister and I bought a house that she house hacks.

[00:11:01] My brother, I gifted him a percentage of a house that we bought and then we later sold

[00:11:06] a couple years later for Christmas. And then I have had two other partners that I've worked with.

[00:11:12] One right now he does all the property management. Right now he runs and operates our

[00:11:19] property management company. And then we have a couple of short term rentals together.

[00:11:24] And then another one, we just have long term rentals together that we partnered on where

[00:11:29] everything's pretty much 50 50. And he also that partner, he also has a couple businesses.

[00:11:36] He owns a restaurant franchise five locations. And so he actually has used his real estate to

[00:11:44] fund the purchase of those franchises that he bought. And that's been a huge learning experience

[00:11:50] for me is that these entrepreneurs that have these other businesses have been able to purchase

[00:11:56] them or expand or grow by refinancing and using that equity that's sitting in their real estate

[00:12:03] to actually fund their business too. Instead of having to go and get a business loan,

[00:12:08] things like that. And you're definitely getting better rates of financing refinancing on a property

[00:12:13] too. Well, yeah, one of the things that we do a lot of is that we educate business owners

[00:12:19] that have like a business that has a need for a local presence. So whether you have employees

[00:12:24] or customers or clients or patients, or what have you in your in your it's a growing business

[00:12:28] and you've got sort of a long glide path to buy the building that your business is in. And a lot

[00:12:33] of times by larger like we have one right now he's building a 12,000 square foot warehouse. He's

[00:12:38] he's remodeling company. And he's only going to need about he's gonna take about I think

[00:12:42] 6,000 feet but he's gonna he's gonna essentially lease out the rest of it,

[00:12:46] which is going to pay the freight on the mortgage and build equity. And so in a few

[00:12:50] years the additional equity he'll be able to leverage to do like you're talking about expand

[00:12:55] his business or buy a competitor or do whatever in addition to other real estate investments,

[00:13:01] multi family and whatnot. Yeah, that's what I've seen the investor I work for due to and

[00:13:06] they're always separate entities you have your LLC for the property and your corporation

[00:13:10] for the business. And so I opened a wine and liquor store. And we bought a four unit building

[00:13:16] we rehabbed it and the liquor store is in one of the units. And what we do is we kind of and

[00:13:24] the you know, the mortgage everything is covered by three other units and there's some cash flow

[00:13:28] there. But we still have the business make a rental income payment because the rental income

[00:13:35] is a better tax advantage. So we have a triple net lease with the liquor store where they

[00:13:40] actually pay the property taxes, they paid the utilities, they paid the insurance, they pay their

[00:13:47] rent. Yeah, we try to offset that as much as possible. So that's like another huge advantage

[00:13:52] to have actually owning the building that your business is in. Yeah, absolutely. Totally

[00:13:57] an advocate for that. We always say you have a real estate holding company and operating company

[00:14:01] rent space from the holding company. And there's a ton of tax advantages as you just

[00:14:06] enumerate Ashley. So yeah, we're tracking that's awesome. So speaking of you know,

[00:14:10] you're talking about partners and you've worked with partners in different capacities. And I want

[00:14:15] to I want to dive into that a little bit. I know you wrote a book on that too. So tell us a little

[00:14:18] about the book and why did you write a book on it? And what are some of the key points because

[00:14:23] a lot of us think a lot of business owners and myself definitely and I've had to deal with

[00:14:29] this a lot in my life in terms of your were Eagles, we like to fly solo right? We like

[00:14:34] to call the shots, we're going to be in control, come good days, bad days. I've seen them both.

[00:14:42] But now I got a partner and now I've got somebody else involved. I've got a wife,

[00:14:47] which is a great partner. So we've done well there but talk about that dive deep and just

[00:14:54] educate me and our audience on this. Yeah, so I wrote the book Real Estate Partnerships

[00:14:58] with my co-host of the podcast, Tony Robinson. And we decided to write this because this is both

[00:15:05] how we got our start. We both started with getting partners and we still continue to use partnerships

[00:15:11] today and we use very different partnership structures for you know, properties we're

[00:15:16] purchasing. So we just thought we would put all the information we know together and share

[00:15:21] experience and share the knowledge we have on creating partnerships to kind of alleviate

[00:15:26] some of that worry and that risk and to clarify something. So you know, the question we get asked

[00:15:32] most is how should I structure the partnership? And you know, we always have to give the worst

[00:15:37] answer. Well, it depends and really it's negotiable and you can structure it any way you want as

[00:15:43] long as it's illegal. But I could give you $100,000 and you go and buy a property that's

[00:15:49] $100,000 and you could say I'm only giving you 10% but we're hiring a property manager

[00:15:56] company. I'm not doing anything but I brought the deal so I'm getting 90% or it could be the

[00:16:01] reverse way. I could get 90 because I'm bringing 100% of the capital and you're getting 10%

[00:16:06] because you found the deal. There's no wrong way. It's really what is, you know, beneficial to

[00:16:12] you and your partner and what you would agree on. So starting out, I did that deal where we

[00:16:16] are 50-50 equity partners and then, you know, he got that mortgage payment back to made all

[00:16:22] of his principal outback and made interest on it plus the cash flow he made on it,

[00:16:26] plus the equity in the property in the profit when we sold the property. So that was a huge

[00:16:31] advantage and today someone offered me that structure I would say no. Like I have too much

[00:16:36] value now. I know too many things. I can find this better deal, things like that. But getting

[00:16:40] started, he put all his trust into me. I took care of everything and he was passive.

[00:16:48] He didn't do anything. He didn't second guess me and I think some of my biggest recommendations

[00:16:53] for taking on a partner is first identify why you want to partner. Is it just because you need

[00:17:00] capital? Well, then you're going to want to solicit and find a partner that is just going

[00:17:06] to give you the capital and be hands off and completely trust you. You know, maybe you're

[00:17:11] sending them a quarterly report but they're not going to be micromanaging you or try to

[00:17:15] give their ideas. Maybe you want someone who's going to come in and give ideas and things like

[00:17:21] that. So that's the first step is identifying what type of partner you actually want and their

[00:17:26] involvement. So when you gave the example and asked me the question saying, you know,

[00:17:31] like you have a partner coming in and then all these things can happen and that's where

[00:17:35] at the beginning of the relationship you set those expectations as to this is what I'm in

[00:17:40] charge of. This is what your job is and that job may just be writing the check and reading

[00:17:46] the quarterly reports or whatever that is. So being able to set the expectation in the beginning

[00:17:52] is a great point. And for me, I want to hammer that piece home right there about setting

[00:17:58] expectations in the beginning because you talked about this in your story a little bit

[00:18:02] about how your first not your first job but your job with the family business that

[00:18:07] got you in real estate was a cleanup. Get me organized. Okay. And that's a terrible job description.

[00:18:14] And that's a terrible way to go into a partnership on real estate. Right? I mean, we need to know

[00:18:19] was it Steven Covices begin with the end of mind, right? We need to know our exit plan

[00:18:23] from beginning and potential contingencies because if it goes really well, people tend

[00:18:29] to forget what the handshake agreement was. If it goes really bad, people tend to forget

[00:18:34] what the handshake agreement was. Right? So talk about setting expectations and then

[00:18:41] because you came in and set up systems and everything, but you're talking about codifying

[00:18:46] that, right? I mean, black and white and agreement and written down and signed and

[00:18:51] everyone is on the same page, I'm assuming. Yeah. Like the more detailed you can get,

[00:18:55] the better. And obviously you're not going to be able to write down every single task

[00:18:58] that person is responsible for, but also like for property management and, you know,

[00:19:04] if you're purchasing a property with someone and you decide you're going to self manage it together,

[00:19:08] you can write out a pretty defined list as who's responsible for what. So who's responsible

[00:19:13] for paying the bills? Who's responsible for doing the maintenance or contacting the vendors?

[00:19:20] Who's responsible for the rental permits? Things like that. But what you can also do

[00:19:25] is because this is a problem that I've seen in partnerships is where one part, they go into

[00:19:32] the deal 50-50 all hyped up excited. And then one partner ends up doing more work than the other

[00:19:40] partner. Then the other partners gets mad. This isn't fair or the one partner says,

[00:19:44] I don't have time to do the bookkeeping anymore. Let's outsource it. And then the other

[00:19:48] partner goes, well, I'm still doing all the leasing now you're not doing anything. How

[00:19:53] is that fair? That we're still 50-50 partners. Instead of having to go back and restructure

[00:19:58] your whole partnership has actually create a cost detail of what each job or task should be paid.

[00:20:07] So for example, if I'm doing the bookkeeping, I'm getting paid $100 a month. And you can

[00:20:13] put it as to what you would actually pay somebody else or you could, you know, do that a little

[00:20:18] bit of a discount. But then you have this whole breakdown. So then if somebody decides I'm not doing

[00:20:24] the bookkeeping anymore, you're no longer getting that $100 and you can use what you would put on

[00:20:31] that to go and pay someone else. So that's why I actually like getting paid the fair market value

[00:20:35] of what that would cost because that's what you should have been running your numbers as anyways,

[00:20:41] you want to make sure that you can outsource everything later on down the road. And it's

[00:20:45] not going to kill your cash flow. Because you may say like, Oh no, I love it. I love doing it right now.

[00:20:50] Things can win 100% completely change in your life that you don't want to anymore. So you always want

[00:20:55] to bake it into your numbers anyways. But I like having that list of like, Okay, you're not doing

[00:21:00] maintenance anymore. We were paying you $40 an hour whenever you had to go and do the maintenance

[00:21:05] or outsourcing that now and you still have your 50% we're good to go.

[00:21:10] That's a great idea. I mean, it's fantastic. Yeah, because you quantify it. I mean, you hit

[00:21:14] a lot of gold there. I mean, you should do it at the retail price because the other thing that comes

[00:21:20] to mind is as you scale potentially and you do more and more of these, you don't want to be stuck

[00:21:25] doing the, I don't call medial tasks, but the things that you were doing before that you sort of liked,

[00:21:30] but you sort of liked them maybe because you had to do them, but then at some point,

[00:21:34] maybe you don't have to do them. And so if it's baked into the numbers up front,

[00:21:37] then you can do that. And that's kind of part of my story too, as I started out managing 40

[00:21:43] units for this investor. And then it grew to like 90 units over time. And then by that time,

[00:21:49] I had accumulated about 20 units myself. And so it was like, Oh my God, it became a lot. And I

[00:21:56] was doing all of that myself. His daughter started working for me part time. We tried out

[00:22:01] a couple other people and it was just, I was so overwhelmed. I was ripping my hair out. I was

[00:22:06] crying. Like, so I just said, you know what, let's give this to a professional. I don't want

[00:22:11] to do this anymore. It's awful. I can't handle it anymore. And so we hired a third party property

[00:22:16] management company. And that is where I learned so much. I learned that you can't just sit back and

[00:22:24] now you have a passive investment, you still have to be the asset manager. They're not going to,

[00:22:31] you know, look at your insurance bill and say, you know what, that's a little bit high. Let's

[00:22:33] quote it out. They're not going to look at your water bill and say, you know what,

[00:22:36] I think the toilet's leaking or there's water running somewhere because it's a little bit higher

[00:22:40] than last month. They're not going to want to jump into, you know, getting an eviction. They're

[00:22:46] going to want to, you know, they got other properties to manage. You're going to be placed

[00:22:51] in line as to when it's going to happen. So we actually, we did three years with them and

[00:22:57] I built out a property management company last year. And so May of 2023, we launched our new

[00:23:04] property management company and we took my properties and the other investors properties

[00:23:09] and we're not taking on any other clients. But this time around, I hired everything. I rarely

[00:23:17] have to do anything for this, you know, property management company that right now we're doing

[00:23:22] 150 units, I think. And I have a full-time maintenance guy who's boosted on the ground.

[00:23:27] I have two virtual assistants in the Philippines. And, you know, if I would have known what

[00:23:33] I know now back then and I would have made my assistants and processes, created my SOPs and

[00:23:39] built everything out so that someone else could follow it and learn. It would have been

[00:23:44] so much better, but I could, I felt stuck that I couldn't acquire any more properties

[00:23:50] because I was spending so much time in the property management business.

[00:23:53] Yeah. As Michael Gerber would say the EMIF, you're busy working in the business and not

[00:23:57] on the business, right? And so yeah, you hit your ceiling. I mean, you're,

[00:24:01] you're in this world of trading time for dollars, which, you know, Robert Kiyosaki and everyone

[00:24:06] would poo poo on, right? And because, hey, it's only 24 hours in a day. And you probably have

[00:24:11] other things with three kids and a husband that you like to do with your time and not just work,

[00:24:16] right? So okay. So so you hit two identify why you want to partner set expectations. Was there

[00:24:23] any other key points on the partner sort of advice? Yeah. So when you're building out your

[00:24:32] relationship, your structure with a partner is having alignment meetings. So I'll even mention

[00:24:39] your wife that, you know, your partner with her. So when you're partnering with somebody in a business,

[00:24:45] you're also partnering with their spouse or their significant other because a lot of the

[00:24:51] decisions they make are influenced by their significant other. So I like to give the example

[00:24:56] of, okay, we're, we're partners and you know, we're starting to build this business starting to grow.

[00:25:03] It will maybe your wife is getting excited like three years, like we can move to the beach,

[00:25:09] like let's sell this, like I see how much, you know, money this is making, you could sell

[00:25:13] this for a lot of money, blah, blah. And then you know, me I'm thinking I have five kids in private

[00:25:22] school, I've got to save for their college, you know, I have all these high expenses where I need

[00:25:28] to keep rolling in this business because I just am, you know, spending more than I'm even

[00:25:35] making right now on all of this stuff. And so if we're not aligned, it's going to get to

[00:25:40] the point where there's the fork in the road, where it comes to the point where you could sell

[00:25:44] the business. You say no, like my, I promised my wife that I would grind for three years and I'm

[00:25:50] out and we're moving to the beach, like what I need to sell. And your partner, me says,

[00:25:57] I can't buy you out. I don't have the money. It's just not in the cards for me right now.

[00:26:04] I thought we were like in this for the long haul, the grind. And then it comes to the

[00:26:08] point as to, okay, you stay in the business or you sell to somebody else. And now I have to be

[00:26:15] partners with someone that I may not want to be, or even if I do, it's, it's not going to be the

[00:26:20] same and it's still going to be a significant change. So that's where, you know, involving

[00:26:26] what's going on at home into those alignment meetings is I think really, really beneficial.

[00:26:32] Maybe that's even just once a year, but also quarterly, you know, things too. And I

[00:26:37] think it's important for your spouse to know what's going on in your business too, to just kind of

[00:26:43] their pulse on the situation of what's going on. Yeah. Yeah. No good point. I mean, a lot of this

[00:26:49] boils down to clear communication and regular communication, right? Yeah. From the beginning

[00:26:54] and then throughout the process, it sounds like, okay, yeah, great alignment. That's a really

[00:26:58] good point. Anything else? I guess the last thing you kind of touched on right there is

[00:27:04] the communication piece as to James Danard, who's a real estate investor out of Seattle. He does this

[00:27:11] very well with his business partner as far as they each have their roles in the business

[00:27:18] where decisions are ultimately their decision if it's in their wheelhouse. So if it's in the

[00:27:24] brokerage side, it's James and if it's in the property management side, it's his partner's

[00:27:29] ultimate decision. And what they do is they'll discuss, you know, issues that come up or things

[00:27:35] like that and they'll give each other feedback, but no matter what, whoever is the, you know, their

[00:27:41] department, they're making the final decision and they have and they've learned to trust each

[00:27:46] other over the years. And he said it also makes things move a lot faster where it's not me,

[00:27:52] I don't know the day today. I'm not continuously questioning him trying to figure out if I

[00:27:57] can find the right answer. You know, it's just we're there as sounding boards to each other,

[00:28:01] but also it's the other person's ultimate decision. So I think having that trust and

[00:28:07] my newest partner that's, you know, kind of taking over my property management company

[00:28:11] right now, he that is like the most beneficial thing with him is like, I have such trust

[00:28:17] that he is making the decision in the best interest of the property, the tenant, the business.

[00:28:26] And I even if it may end up being the wrong decision, it's still he knows more than I do

[00:28:33] in the day to day. And that I think is just like so valuable that you don't feel like somebody's

[00:28:39] trying to make a decision based on what's easy way out or, you know, things like that. But

[00:28:46] that would be my last piece of advice there. So basically you're saying, you know, this partnerships

[00:28:52] goes beyond I mean real estate investing this this overlays a lot of things. I mean, you're

[00:28:58] essentially building a business when you buy a piece of real estate, right? And you continue to buy

[00:29:02] real estate. And if you have partners and everyone has a defined role, it's not unlike

[00:29:07] building a company where you have certain defined roles where you might have, you know,

[00:29:11] for you the CPA, the accountant, you have the, you know, the sales manager, director or whatnot.

[00:29:17] And everyone may have they have a voice but really ultimately at the end of the day,

[00:29:22] you know, if you're the CPA and you're the accountant in the company, you're going to

[00:29:24] know the books a lot better than me the sales guy, you know, like, Hey, you need to raise your,

[00:29:29] you know, raise your prices because we're a profit bar is not far enough.

[00:29:34] So and I did spring up one other question. In terms of like you mentioned your, your

[00:29:40] newest partner on a property property management company that you have. So I want to make sure our

[00:29:46] terms are defined now you, you're saying partner now, are you and I know in the real estate sense

[00:29:52] you're generally there's going to be some kind of an ownership component for the partner. So

[00:29:56] they have skin in the game of some type. Are you suggesting that like your property management

[00:30:02] partner are you when you bring on a partner this is somebody beyond just a like a paid employee

[00:30:07] this is someone that is that has some skin in the game and some success, you know, their success

[00:30:14] is tied to the success of the enterprise. Yeah, so all of my real estate partnerships are LLCs

[00:30:20] and then I'm in one joint venture right now for a flip I'm doing but with the property

[00:30:25] management company, I own the majority of that and then the other business owner

[00:30:31] that I'm managing his properties he owns a small percentage of it because he brought

[00:30:35] his properties into it. Other than that my partner that I talked about that oversees the whole company

[00:30:42] and runs it he is my partner on real estate deals. So we have real estate deals together

[00:30:49] but as far as a property management company, he doesn't have any ownership into that. He is

[00:30:56] on salary for being the you know the manager of it and then also he does a lot of the

[00:31:03] maintenance requests too so he'll get paid an hourly rate for that but the goal is to actually

[00:31:10] give him a percentage of it to actually take full control. So we're kind of you know having him

[00:31:17] learn the whole business and going through it but I would love to be as hands off as possible

[00:31:23] and just you know collect some you know money coming in just being a passive investor

[00:31:30] that passive investor thing right yeah well but you learn but you talked about trust in here a few

[00:31:37] times and partnership it's obviously clearly important to you as a theme. This particular

[00:31:43] person that is your partner for the property management you said he's a partner on other

[00:31:47] real estate deals so you guys have built this trust and relationship through true partnerships

[00:31:52] and now you're giving basically another opportunity to become a partner in another space.

[00:31:58] Yeah and he's the first person that I partnered with that I didn't know for like years that I

[00:32:04] partnered with and I knew each other for about four months before just casual friends not we

[00:32:11] didn't really hang out that much but when we would he would say how much he hated his job

[00:32:17] and he was worked in construction he was a foreman and it just kind of got my mind going

[00:32:21] like I actually need a project manager maybe he would be good so he's laid off in the winner

[00:32:26] so that winner he worked by me side by side every single day while he was on unemployment just learning

[00:32:33] basically job shadowed me and you know everything that I did just learning and consuming as much

[00:32:39] as he could and then when it came time for him to go back to work we ended up purchasing a

[00:32:46] property to get there and we set the partnership up as far as he was getting paid now really

[00:32:52] great to actually do the renovations on it and he owned a percentage of the property so that way

[00:32:58] if we did hire out things it wasn't you know a big deal like we were hiring everything out

[00:33:02] including him doing the work instead of him just putting in sweat equity to the property so

[00:33:09] then he ended up putting his job and he's never gone back and we just bought properties and

[00:33:13] rehabbed him and now he does work for the property management company full time but I will say

[00:33:20] like one thing that I have learned is that my very first partner so he was already entrepreneurial

[00:33:26] you know his dad was he went into the family business so he's already had that kind of mindset

[00:33:32] where this other partner he came from working W2s his whole life and he you know kind of

[00:33:39] lived paycheck to paycheck and making that transition of now you're not getting a paycheck

[00:33:49] every week like you have to budget to know that you know maybe once a month or you know when we

[00:33:54] sell a property that you're getting a big chunk and you got it and so part of the reason that

[00:34:01] he doesn't have ownership of the property management company yet is because he depends on

[00:34:08] that salary and depends on you know making that routine money where he doesn't want to

[00:34:16] he doesn't want to I'm trying to sound this in a nice way as to say it as a negative thing it's

[00:34:23] just a mindset that so many Americans have been taught as to how they learned but he doesn't

[00:34:28] want to give up something to have the reward later on in life such as you know I will

[00:34:35] I'll gladly give somebody you know a big chunk of money and know that you know it's not going

[00:34:40] to be a great return until a year later or something like that like not willing to make

[00:34:44] the sacrifice for that investment I guess I would say no I get it you you um you did that in a very

[00:34:53] a very gingerly manner um it's been it's been hammered the system has been hammered into us

[00:35:00] sent for generations now and you know people are starting to realize that the system is flawed

[00:35:07] but you know but it takes a while to to get you know sadly many people never escape that

[00:35:13] you know the gravitational pull of all that you know training and the culture and all that but

[00:35:18] more and more people are waking up and people like you Ashley that have the have had the you

[00:35:24] know the courage to step out and make those risky choices early on and to basically push back I mean

[00:35:30] that first courageous decision on the job right out of school um inspires people to and with

[00:35:36] your podcast to make that step because we both know that um whether it's business or real estate

[00:35:42] or something where you're out on there sort of trusting your abilities that first step you know a

[00:35:46] little bit of taste of success is is goes so far you know building your confidence to you know

[00:35:53] you can crawl and then maybe if I'm crawl I can maybe actually stand up some time and walk I might

[00:35:57] not see myself as you know the Donald Trump of real estate but right but but maybe you know maybe

[00:36:04] one day possibly we're making progress and um when I can hear from people like you and read

[00:36:10] your books and that sort of thing um it inspires me to say okay yeah maybe I can take that next

[00:36:14] step and then the next step and especially with long-term rentals too which is what we do buy and

[00:36:19] hold not usually a ton of cash flow up front like we have a couple properties that have hit but

[00:36:25] you know it's it's taken time like as over the years like okay we have a bunch of equity we

[00:36:30] can refinance this one to buy this one and then you know we're paying down stuff and we're

[00:36:34] leveraged there's more cash flow but it has taken time it was you know when we first started we were

[00:36:40] getting you know we were leveraging basically 100% doing the burr strategy of what we put into it

[00:36:47] getting all our money back so it was zero money out of pocket basically once we started doing

[00:36:52] the burrs but it still it wasn't a ton of cash since we weren't leaving any cash in the deal

[00:36:58] for the cash flow so those first couple properties can seem like not that exciting but as time goes on

[00:37:06] and like in um 2021 I sold a ton of properties I bought for like 20 000 dollars I sold them

[00:37:13] for like 60 000 that's a great return but like I held onto them for you know you know several

[00:37:20] more than several years they was like five or six years but yeah so it's not always super exciting

[00:37:26] and flashy at the beginning either well my favorite book says do not essentially paraphrasing

[00:37:33] do not look downward on small beginnings because you have to start somewhere and this whole idea of

[00:37:40] I'm getting rich immediately or overnight in anything is a sure way to failure in anything

[00:37:47] and real estate you can certainly can build amazing wealth but it takes time it takes

[00:37:51] learning it takes investment and that's the thing it's wealth that you're building it's not

[00:37:54] getting rich quick right right well actually this has been awesome tell me what what have we missed as

[00:38:01] we wrap up is there anything else that uh we want to talk about I want to hear the name of your

[00:38:05] book again and where people can get it for sure and get more of of your um great information

[00:38:10] where to find your podcast and all that sure so you can find the podcast real estate rookie

[00:38:16] it's on Spotify apple podcast wherever you listen to podcasts you can find it there

[00:38:21] and then I wrote the book real estate rookie and real estate partnerships with tony robinson you can

[00:38:27] find that on biggerpockets.com they have a bookstore you use the code ashley you get a 10

[00:38:33] percent discount and then also you can find it on amazon too if you love that prime fast

[00:38:38] shipping you can get it there and then I also host a rookie boot camp so if you're looking to

[00:38:44] get started in real estate you go to biggerpockets.com slash boot camps and I basically over the

[00:38:50] course of eight weeks take you through getting your first property um feeling comfortable comfortable

[00:38:56] and confident in making offers on your first deal well that's awesome we'll get all that in the

[00:39:02] show notes and everything um ashley this has been great what a great story you're doing amazing things

[00:39:06] that I have this feeling like you're just getting started I feel like it I feel like it's

[00:39:11] been so long I've been messing but it's like every year there's something new and exciting

[00:39:16] and something to add and grow so thank you so much for having me I'm sure yeah and I've never

[00:39:22] been a cpa but I guarantee what you're doing now is a lot more interesting and fun than being a cp

[00:39:28] I think so too my god I think about it sometimes and I just don't think I went to like a workshop

[00:39:36] retreat thing recently where we had to sit in like a session like one session for a full day

[00:39:42] like at your computer and I was just like I don't think I could even sit at my desk for a full day

[00:39:47] I have a walking pad I walk and everything and then I like go outside and I do or think you know it's

[00:39:52] very rare that I'm at a desk all day long and I just I don't think that I could do go back to that

[00:39:57] either awesome well great choice we'll have an amazing day and thanks again for being on the

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